"I will not quit until he is bankrupt and homeless" They do not just want you out of their life, sometimes they want you erased from the memory of your children and the life of others! There is a type of heartbreak that comes with high conflict divorce that is hard to put into words. [...]
"I will not stop until he is bankrupt and homeless...." Sadly this quote is something I have heard repeated by more than one father when they tell me what was said about them. When a father stops fighting for his children, people often make a quick and painful assumption: "He must not care anymore." But [...]
Since I have stopped being silent about this topic, I have discovered that many more others have suffered from it too. I have also found that many more want to know exactly what is because they think they are victims as well. To make it simple, I outlined what this can and would like like [...]
Parental alienation is demonic because it simply requires you to constant turn the other cheek, not fight for yourself and always, no matter how hard it is, to suffer in peace. Divorce changes a family. But sometimes the damage goes further. For some parents, one of the most painful experiences is watching a child who [...]
When Manipulation Turns into Isolation One of the most damaging parts of dealing with a manipulative person isn’t always what that person does directly to you. Sometimes, it’s what (and who) they convince people to do for them. Friends. Family members. Co-workers. Mutual acquaintances. Even people you once trusted. They love to divide and will [...]
September is Suicide Awareness Month For some men, divorce and high-conflict custody battles can become far more than the end of a marriage. The statistics show that men who are falsely accused of abuse (the so called Silver Bullet) are 10-20 times more likely to commit suicide than divorced women. This type of divorce can [...]
